happy i am the only wife today

I always thought I could be okay if Joel had more than one wife.  But today I am sure that I could not handle it.  It sounds romantic doesn't it, to have someone to help you with everything, to share the burden and to talk about your husband to. Kinda like a girlfriend and a permanent slumber party.  But I was naive.  That is not how it works.  I don't think the Wife gets to choose who is attracted to her husband.  So its more of a forced relationship to be friends, initally or forever.  

I am glad to have been raised as I was and have the relationship I have. 

I think it takes a village to raise a child, but primarily it takes one father and one mother.