I always thought I could be okay if Joel had more than one wife. But today I am sure that I could not handle it. It sounds romantic doesn't it, to have someone to help you with everything, to share the burden and to talk about your husband to. Kinda like a girlfriend and a permanent slumber party. But I was naive. That is not how it works. I don't think the Wife gets to choose who is attracted to her husband. So its more of a forced relationship to be friends, initally or forever. I am glad to have been raised as I was and have the relationship I have. I think it takes a village to raise a child, but primarily it takes one father and one mother.